My Gaijin Life

Is going back to Japan a good idea?

2009-01-27T13:13:00.003+09:00

What d'ya think, my friends?

I know that Japan is in recession, but my life would be better off there than here (in the Philippines). Well, that's what I believe. I am in constant contact with a few friends there and they are helping me out in looking for a nice job in ESL teaching. No concrete moves yet as of now, but I am optimistic that I'll have a big chance of getting a job that I want.

A part of me is getting excited with such idea. For one, I could savor my fave Jap dishes again, and ooh, ah, to my tummy's delight. Secondly, I get to reunite with my close friends there who've considered Japan as their home, and to my Jap students who became my friends too.

But the other part of me is quite sad too. Japan has been a major witness in my married life. This is where my husband and I have received the gift of parenthood with the coming of Luke and Lois into our life. Many happy memories happened and are kept in this beautiful place. And reminiscing all these breaks my heart. I could not help but break into tears, even with just the slightest thought of revisiting the places where Dadi and I used to enjoy together.

Your two cents, please.

Hyakuen shop ... in the Philippines?

2007-06-20T14:26:00.000+09:00

When I was still in Japan, I frequent the hyakuen shops where I can buy all sort of things -- things that I would only realize I need them when I saw them in 100yen shops.

And when we went back home, I was only able to bring home some of those 100-yen stuff, and had to throw away most of them. :(

Luckily, I recently discovered this shop that promotes and upholds the concept of 100-yen shops in Japan. As I scan around the items sold at the Japan Home Centre, I could see familiar stuffs that I usually buy back in Japan. But no, the price is not 100 yen, but 88pesos. At first, I was excited to buy some, but after thinking twice, I felt it is a bit expensive for me. In Japan, it is easy to buy anything for 100 yen. But buying the same thing for 88pesos here in the Philippines, the price is doubled. So, in the end, I just grabbed a pack of bathroom tissues (hoping that I could flush it in the toilet bowl, the way I used to do in Japan) and bathroom cleaner.

Anyway, I think I would still visit this shop to buy those only-in-Japan products that are not/hardly found in other shops.

So, if you want to try out Japan-made stuffs, go visit the shop.

Photo from: Japan Home Centre website

Are we ready to go back home?

2007-03-31T00:45:00.000+09:00

Whew, that's quite a tough question, eh!

Emotionally, yeah. But when it concerns our stuff (read: all those balikbayan boxes), no answer for now.

If you get to see how things are scattered around our house now, you would probably think that we are "getting ready". We have already given away some of our things -- the bigger ones -- to the point that we are now kinda getting through our daily life without microwave oven, washing machine, no tables, and with a very small fridge. Our bed is still with us, no taker yet. ;)

I still have three weeks to do the packing. Just enough to finish everything that has to be done, including enjoying Sakura in most big and wide Kouens around Tokyo. ;)

Mark the date, my friends. Ready or not. April 18th. See you sooooooon. ;)

So, we're going home ...

2007-02-20T16:43:00.000+09:00

Yeah, that's right! As to the exact date, it's not sure yet. I haven't even booked our flight yet. One thing is sure, though -- we're going home, probably not later than April 1st week.

So, am I glad -- or sad?

Truth be told, I would say more on the latter side. To put it bluntly, I don't wanna go home -- not yet, not now. It's not that I want to live here for the rest of my life. I only want to STAY A LITTLE LONGER. A few more months or years maybe, just to complete my enjoyment here. It is as if I have just come to know the goodness of life here that makes me want to stay. Yeah, I've been here since three years ago, but all I did and experienced in the first two and half years was trouble, complaints here and there, whining at all sorts. Of course, I still whine about pricey stuff here, but in a little different way, or should I say, in a more placid way. It was only since the latter half of 2006 when I (as far as I can recall) started to enjoy my gaijin life -- strolling around with my kid, liking the Japanese-y taste of dishes, cooking Japanese dishes, having a part time job (my earnings usually go to some luxuries, a.k.a. books), and vacationing to some nice places. This is aside from friends whom we get to hang out with once in a while.

Besides, it's election time once again in the Philippines, and all people are frenzy about it (take the word "frenzy" in a negative way). It's freeze hiring, and obviously I could not land a job right away. In other words, nothing to do but lull away the time while exhausting the meager hard-earned savings that we plan to bring home. Unlike here, at least I have some opportunities for part time job. There is even a possibility to have a full-time job, but my family commitment won't allow me to.

Nevertheless, we're going home. And that's final. Whatever awaits us back home, that's uncertain. And a chance to come back here? Hmm, that's all the more uncertain. But I'm keeping my fingers crossed in the hope that we'd be able to visit Japan again. ;)

Back to Tokyo, and what?

2007-01-27T22:36:00.000+09:00

Okay, enough of our fairytale vacation. We have long been back to Tokyo, and to real life. Yes, life that is so real we feel we are being treated unfairly. Why? Let me tell you.

This morning, my hubby was about to take our son out when he noticed our jitensha (bicycle), standing rightly in the parking area of our building, has lost its chair. Yeah, a chairless jitensha is what we have now. And, who on earth would steal only the chair? What would the bad guy do with the chair? Can he sell it? I don't think so. Who on earth would buy only that?

Our jitensha has been with us for three years now, and needless to say, has been through a lot. No matter how stainless its parts are, rust still persist in all corners, and dents are everywhere. Rain or shine, summer or fall, it has been my hubby's loyal buddy. And it was even jitensha-napped twice. In these two instances, the nappers were kind enough to return it to the parking area after borrowing it for a couple days without informing us.

This time, will the napper/s bring back the chair to where it should be?

To the chair-napper (if he happens to read this blog -- and if he can understand Eigo), I have one message for you:

Couldn't you just wait for two months until we're outta here, and we will even voluntarily hand you over our jitensha -- the whole of it, not just the chair, if you want? But not now, it's too early. What's the use of the bicycle without the chair? You could have taken everything ...

Grrr ...

I spotted a Geisha

2007-01-25T18:15:00.000+09:00

Must have been the best of my luck to spot a Geisha (or geiko in Kyoto dialect) while we were roaming around the narrow roads going somewhere Maruyama-koen and Yasaka-jinja.

I did only one shot. In fact, I stole this shot. And this is the best angle I could get. The Geisha was posing for another photographer (to her left), and I positioned myself to her right, distant from the pro photographer. I was not so sure if the photographer was paying for the shot, so I quickly took my one-second chance to press the shutter. Besides, my memory card was already full and I only had one shot to spare.

Anyway, this was my first time to see a real Geisha. Usually, I only see them in Japanese movies. They look so gentle, and I wonder if they are comfy with their rather elaborate kimonos.

Geishas, for those who are not aware of who they are, work in Japanese teahouses and entertain gentlemen of considerable means or their patrons. Not all young ladies could be one, for it takes talent and skills to master the traditional fan dance, and other forms of visual and performing arts, notably the shamisen performance. According to Lonely Planet Japan (pp. 344, sorry no online link), there are only about 1000 geishas and maikos (apprentice geisha) around, with about 200 found in Kyoto. And this number is ever decreasing.

My research also tells me that not all interested gentlemen can see a performing geisha. First of all, one needs about $3000 to spend an evening with one or two geishas. Secondly, one needs a referral or introduction of an established patron in order to be entertained. Ows, could there be some "exclusivity" in here?

So, if you are a gentleman with some money to spare, and a friend who knows the way, then go for it -- that is, if you are interested in the first place. Better yet, contact Peter for a walking tour.

As for me, I am more than happy to have this single shot. ;)

Two of the historic sights in Kansai

2007-01-24T19:09:00.000+09:00

See related entries: Nara, Kyoto (Parts 1, 2 and 3)

More about Todaiji from JapanGuide.com
More about Golden Temple here and here.

Haven't I told you about our Kansai spree yet?

2007-01-23T18:20:00.000+09:00

Probably, you are overwhlemed by my foodie stories and other photos of our Hokkaido escapade. Now, I'm gonna lure you of the must-see places that we visited during our 4-day galore in Kansai.

Briefly, Kansai is just like Tokyo on the west side of Japan. Prices are still high, although comparatively lower than in Tokyo. Surprisingly, I didn't shop much. In fact, I didn't buy anything except for some diapers and baby milk for my toddler, and of course, oatmeal. ;)

While we greeted the New Year with a bang, our first night of the year was spent in Honmachi, a place somewhere between the Kita (North) and Minami (South) area of Osaka. If I were to describe our trip around Kansai, I would say it was such a walking saga. Read on to find out why.

To our luck, almost all shops were closed on the first two days of the year -- except Starbucks, I guess. On our first night, we strolled around the place somehow exploring the cityscape at night while in dire search for a nice place to dine. Probably, we didn't mind walking at all until we reached the next station, hoping there were some shops open. Sure enough, Pepper Lunch was the only shop open at that time (aside from Starbucks, of course).

The next morning, we headed to Kyoto. Again, in trying to explore the place, we volunteered to walk till we get to the next station (the oppposite side of the last night's stroll) where we departed for Kyoto -- and back.

On the third day, we went to Nara, and got back to Namba early afternoon. Perhaps, our strolling never got tired of us (or the other way around?) that we decided to walk again from Namba to Honmachi. That's 2 stations away, mind you. Of course, we're a bit exhausted already but looking for shops where we could buy baby products was our goal this time. Halfway through our walking saga, our luck had us enjoy our tonkatsu dinner --but not diapers and baby milk. So, that night, we gave Luke fresh milk instead, while observing him for any signs of allergy (none so far, thank heavens!).

Come fourth day -- our last day, strolling was only between sightseeing places, thanks to our friend who knows the way. ;)

In short, our Kansai tour was not only highlighted by sightseeing (see Kyoto adventure, Parts 1, 2 and 3) but also some sort of unplanned/forced wandering in search of food shops (first night) and baby essentials (2nd and 3rd night).

And oh, in most of the places we went to, toilets are not baby-friendly, and toilet paper not supplied. Just for the record. ;)

Hokkaido sceneries

2007-01-17T16:05:00.000+09:00

Can't get enough of this beautiful place, eh? Here are some photos to lure your eyes with. Hokkaido exhibits a calm, peaceful place to live in -- no rush hour, no crowded places, no cramped houses here and there, no skyscrapers -- a countryside-scape that is truly amazing!

Hangover from my Hokkaido trip

2007-01-15T16:03:00.000+09:00

If there is one good thing that changed me for the better after my trip to Hokkaido, that would be rekindling my interest for cooking Japanese dishes.

My host family once gave me a recipe book that contains authentic Japanese dishes. Undoubtly, it tickled my interest to try cooking Japanese dishes. However, along the way, my enthusiasm was met with frustration because buying the unfamiliar ingredients (at least for me they are unfamiliar) was quite confusing. Aside from the fact that I don't even know how some vegetables look like, their labels are of course in Japanese (needless to say, I can't read Nihonggo -- until now) So, dining out has become my way of trying those dishes.

But after our Hokkaido trip, my interest for cooking Jap dishes was hightened again, to an irristible level that I really wanna do it this time. Oh, in fact, I have already done it, starting with tempura. And yeah, my tempura tasted like tempura! ha, ha! ;)

Wanna have some? ;)

NY's Eve in Hokkaido

2007-01-13T01:33:00.000+09:00

Sounding the bell -- hey, it's 2007!

Sleepy eyes? Still awake to welcome the new year. Jumping, shouting!

And of course, eating and drinking -- welcoming the new year with sweets for a sweet year ahead. ;)

Hokkaido foodie photos

2007-01-12T00:03:00.000+09:00

As promised, here are some photos of our Hokkaido galore. Enjoy! ;)

Okunomiyaki and takoyaki are both trademarks of Kansai region, but we had the chance to munch them all in Hokkaido as our friend is of Kansai origin.

Check out sites about Genghis Khan and Hokkaido.

Highlights of our Hokkaido trip

2007-01-11T16:51:00.000+09:00

Note: Pardon for this long overdue post. I have nothing but a few lame excuses for procastinating. I know you are eager to hear what we did, what we ate, where we went, so I won't keep you waiting. ;)

To start off, I must say that this was the first and the grandest (in terms of expenses) vacation we ever had here in Japan. Some friends even wondered why on earth did we want to have a vacation in the coldest part of Japan on the coldest month of the year? Many reasons, the most significant of which (at least for us) are to chase snow, and feast on Hokkaido's superb dishes. Not only did we achieve these, we also had grand time with our friends who unselfishly accommodated us in their house.

Food, food, and more food!
We ate at home during our entire stay in Hokkaido, but it was as if we were eating out because the dishes served to us were truly superb. The likes of Genghis Khan barbeque, chawan mushi, soba, tempura and lots more I forgot what they are called. And oh, grilled mochi with seaweeds! Of course, we always had soup, different kind each day.

We went with our friends for their grocery shopping, and my eyes (not jaw) dropped as I get to see the low, low prices of seafoods and vegetables. Pumpkin, for example, was only 50yen -- about 1/3 of the price here in Tokyo. A pack of bean sprouts was goodness gracious 10yen! Crabs, lobsters, prawns and many fishes and fish eggs were, if I'm not mistaken, about half the price in Tokyo. Not to mention, they were all sold FRESH (not seemingly fresh)! Oh, it makes me want to stay in this part of Japan and devour on all those. ;)

There is only one thing I find more expensive than in Tokyo -- my baby's milk! But no choice, I had to buy a few boxes.

Shiny, white snow
Meter-high snow welcomed us when we arrived in Fukagawa. It was a fine day when we arrived there but I felt I was freezing to death. Walking on snow needs an extra care so as not to slip (it melts when the sun is up the whole day).

We played on the snow, tried to make a big snowman which turned out to be a snowdevil (that's what our friends call it). My son and I tried to make snowball. It seems so easy to make one when we watched the Teletubbies, but in reality, it was rather difficult I gave up in the end. My son enjoyed it though not minding his already wet and very cold gloves. Our friend patiently made a snowhouse, and according to him, it was warmer inside.

Just the sight of snow makes me warm inside. I don't know why, but I am kinda happy to experience such a wonderful thing and endure the very cold weather, at least for one week. On a fine day, the rays of the bright sun shine through the snow below and produces a sparkling array of stars down.

Oh, we also went tobogganing twice. Hubby enjoyed it the most. Afterwards, we headed to the onsen.

Onsen
What a comfy feeling to bathe in natural hot spring overlooking the sky and falling snow, while having a nice chat with your friend? At first, I thought I could not endure the 41-degree hot water, but as I slowly immersed myself, I started to feel good. My friend and I hopped from one pool to another, inside then outside, and back.

After almost two hours insde the onsen (that includes bath, shower, dressing up, and a few sips of tea or water), going out didn't make us feel cold anymore.

New Year's Eve
We went to the shrine near our friends' house and waited in line for our turn to hit the gong. Striking the gong is the Japanese way of waking up the townspeople and saying, "Hey. it's already 2007!" At the strike of midnight, many people suddenly showed up and queud up for their turn to show those striking power. ;)

Photos coming up in the next post! ;)

Coming of Age Day

2007-01-09T09:22:00.000+09:00

Yesterday, as I went out to buy some groceries, I saw many girls clad in their elegant and seemingly heavy kimono, scattered around the park, waiting for something. Then I learned from a friend that yesterday was the Coming of Age Day, or Seijin no Hi.

This day, as Japan Guide puts it,

The Coming of Age festival is celebrated on the second Monday of January (it used to be celebrated always on January 15 until the year 1999). Its Japanese name is Seijin no hi. All young people who turn twenty years old in that year are celebrated on Seijin no hi. Twenty is the age considered as the beginning of adulthood. It is also the minimum legal age for voting, drinking, and smoking.

Celebrations are held nationwide in every town with most of the people turning 20 participating in formal dresses. Seijin no hi is a national holiday.

Quite surprising for me to learn that the kimono these young adults wear are so expensive one could already buy a standard car (according to my friend). Renting is the only option, which means spending about 200,000yen for wearing a complete set of kimono for ONE DAY.

But more than the elegant attire is the spirit with which this day is held -- to become adults not only in terms of age, but more importantly, to THINK, ACT and BEHAVE as ADULTS should.

Read more about Coming of Age here (written in 1998).

Image source: dougcoutts.com

Bōnenkai

2006-12-21T19:27:00.000+09:00

Dear hubby is gonna be home late tonight because his Laboratory is having Bōnenkai (bon-en-kay) tonight.

Literally, Bōnenkai means "forget-the-year party", which is a Japanized English for "year-end party." From what I've gathered, this is a drinking party held to "forget the woes and troubles of the past year, usually accomplished by consumption of large amounts of alcohol." (see Wikipedia) But what about the good things? I don't think they're supposed to be forgotten, too. ;)

I haven't attended any Bōnenkai in my entire stay here in Japan. I envy those who are lucky enough to attend three Bōnenkais at the most (see this survey) -- all for FREE, usually paid for by the company. Although in my husband's case, each attendee paid 4000yen for the party. Why is that?!

Anyway, in the eikaiwa I work for, we had a "staff gathering" early this month, but I am not so sure if that party can be qualified as Bōnenkai for no one did not mention such term. Or could it be that because the school practices what English natives do, that is, Christmas. So, we had Christmas Party with the Japanese students.

By the way, Japanese don't celebrate Christmas as only about 1% of the population are Christians. Thus, Dec 25 is NOT a holiday. Bōnenkai is the most appropriate counterpart of Christmas in Japan. Of course, almost all Japanese are aware of this most important occasion for Christians. This can be gleaned from the oh-so-Christmas-y decorations in shopping malls, and other entities.

Whether Christmas or Bōnenkai, the most important thing is that we are all happy for the year that was, and all are hopeful for the year that is to come.

Happy Holidays! Or should I say, Kampai! (cheers)

P.S. If you are a gaijin in Nihon and happen to attend the Bōnenkai for the first time, check out these tips -- funny but informative.

More from Chichibu City

2006-12-20T23:38:00.000+09:00

I didn't go to Chichibu, but dear hubby did, as part of the annual tour organized by the University of Tokyo where he is currently studying (and hopefully finish by next spring).

This is a late post, so pardon me for it. But no matter how delayed it is, I find the photos worth sharing.

Chichibu is located in the western part of Saitama Prefecture. It is a mountainous area and is famous for its brewing industry, notably sake. Check out Wikipedia for more info about this suburb place.

Now, for the photos:

Wondering where this road will lead you? The yellow arrow sign actually tells you to "brace yourself, folks!"

Got any idea now? Yup, there is a road in the middle of the mountain, I mean inside the mountain.

See? A yellow bridge bridging the mountain ranges of Chichibu.

The color of nature. So cool ... so bright! Simply awesome! ;)

Appreciating nature, and ...

2006-12-19T12:23:00.000+09:00

Chichibu Island
University of Tokyo Forest Reserve
Photo by Al (my dear hubby), September 2006

Guess I'm in the mood to post good pictures that calm our weary eyes, and soften our angry hearts.

This one is especially posted for my dear friend, TM. When things seem to make life a little difficult for you, think of these other lifeforms that seem to endure the drastically changing environment, no matter how hard it is to adjust and conform -- in order to survive. Giving up is not an option, my friend. Going on is the way to go. Looking forward, thinking forward. Looking at better things in life amidst difficulties, scrunity, disparity and unfair reception from those you love.

Just like the water that keeps moving and falling; the trees that keep changing leaves and colors, we too should keep living ... and loving. YYY

Survival tips

2006-12-18T02:19:00.000+09:00

I have given it a long and thorough thought on how I could impart to you some details, no matter how small or odd they are, of my daily life here in Japan, so you would somehow picture how I survive the daily grind of this hustle-and-bustle place. So, I am coining this series (yes, it is!) survival tips. Who knows, some of these may be applicable to you. ;)

Survival Tip #1.
Everybody knows that Tokyo is a heavenly place such that everything are priced up to heaven. So the trick is, if you want to save some of your precious hard-earned yen, is to shop in the right place and at the right time.

Right place. In my area, I know where I can find the cheapest meat or my favorite cornflakes, or our daily Philippine bananas. In effect, I don't shop in only one place. You might think that is a bit tedious. I don't mind at all, for the shops are just a few meters apart, sometimes facing each other, or on my way home.

And, oh, check out also some recycle shops, that is, if you are not so particular with buying slightly-used items. I'm telling you, those that I bought in these shops look like new.

Right time. Discounts are a no-no here, even in the wet market. But the norm here is that when the sun starts going down, so are the prices of the grocery items. This is especially true for perishables like fish and obentos (ready-made meals). Unless it is urgent, I do my grocery shopping in the afternoon (or evening, after work), where I wait for the price of the fish to go as low as 50%.

Right timing is also good for shopping other necessities. I think I have already memorized the prices of the shoes I wanted to buy for my son, and have gone to many shops to compare prices. And just this afternoon, I chanced upon a beautiful kiddie shoes sold at only 450yen! Knowing that the original price was at 2kyen, I grabbed it right away! Once, I bought my son's outdoor shorts for only hyakuen (100yen)!

More survival tips next time! ;)

Yoyogi Koen in Shibuya

2006-12-17T00:37:00.000+09:00

Sorry for this delayed post. It must have slipped my mind to post it right after we arrived home from our strolling at the huge and forest-like Yoyogi Koen, located in Shibuya-ku, Tokyo.

We visited the park at a time when the leaves were just starting to change from the cool greens of summer to the awesome shining colors of autumn.

Here's a brief yet interesting description from Japan-Guide.com:

Yoyogi Koen (Yoyogi Park) is one of Tokyo's largest city parks, featuring wide lawns, ponds and forested areas. It is a great place for jogging, picnicking and other outdoor activities.

Although Yoyogi Park has relatively few cherry trees compared to other sites in Tokyo, it makes a nice cherry blossom viewing spot in spring. Furthermore, it is known for its ginko tree forest, which turns intensively golden in autumn.

Before becoming a city park in 1967, the area where Yoyogi Park is located today, served as the site of the olympic village for the 1964 Tokyo Olympics, and before that as a residential area for US military personnel.

When we visited the park a month ago, roses of all colors abound around the entrance gate, freshly welcoming visitors and inviting them to a grand tour of the wide park proud to have numerous ginko tree species that brighten your rather gloomy day -- right in the heart of the thickly-populated Shibuya area.

It is just too bad that we aren't able to go see the trees transform in autumn colors. Maybe next time. ;)

Eigo de?

2006-12-16T23:03:00.000+09:00

In my three years as gaijin in Japan, it's quite rare for me to talk to a Japanese who can speak English almost on a native level. When this happens, I feel like I've been freed from an skimpy cell where words are kept to their simplest forms.

In one of our visits to Shinjuku Gyoen (well, we are regulars here), I chanced upon a short yet entertaining conversation with Yoko-san. She is conversant and friendly, and she was the one who initiated the conversation (I had to admit I was hesitant at first). She had lived in New York for five years (if I am not mistaken) and have traveled around Southeast Asia except Philippines, my dear homeland. (As a backgrounder, most Japs have a not-so-good impression about the Philippines, thus shun away from Filipinas and avoid traveling there. I'll post a longer story about this, promise!)

Japs are very eager to learn the English language for various reasons, but mostly for travel and business purposes. As an EFL/ESL teacher, I have experienced teaching Japs of varied levels. The most difficult for me, and I take it as a challenge, is to teach those in the lowest levels for they tend to speak in Japanese in the class, which I don't and can't understand. The easiest are those in the upper bracket where I can freely use some difficult and/or longer words/phrases, and can easily create a lively discussion. And the most rewarding part of my "profession" is when these students go out of the class smiling and feeling satisfied with their lessons with me. This doesn't happen everyday though as some would say "musukashi" (difficult).

On my part, I make extra effort to learn Nihonggo, not only because it is a necessity to survive here, but also for me to somehow grasp what my lower-level students are trying to say to me. They are exerting so much effort to learn English, so I must put similar amount of work of understanding their language too.

And how far have I gone with my Nihonggo? All I can say is ... musukashi! ;)

More colorful and vibrant ...

2006-12-12T00:30:00.000+09:00

Our friend, Rich-san, is one of the luckiest persons in the world for having the chance to work in one of the biggest and well-maintained parks/gardens in Tokyo. More than that, he is a photographer with a very keen eye for best subjects to aim his trusted camera at.

The last time we visited the park, he shared to us some of his shots, and I'm sharing them here with you. Enjoy! ;)

The colors of autumn

2006-12-11T02:18:00.000+09:00

I was almost getting desperate and frustrated that it's already December and most leaves have fallen rendering the tree dead-like, yet I haven't even seen the wonderful colors of autumn leaves!

Well, that was only almost. Before all leaves get to fall, I got MY chance to see and experience the vast colors of autumn -- where else but in our favorite koen, Shinjuku Gyoen National Park! (We visit this park once a month, I guess)

This is my first autumn in Japan, and firsts have to be good and beautiful. It is, indeed! ;)

More photos below:

Note: Cross-posted in my G.A.N.D.A. blog. ;)

PM Abe visits Manila

2006-12-10T23:31:00.000+09:00

It's his first visit to my dear homeland since taking office last September.

I wouldn't ask how did he find Mrs. Arroyo nor what special Filipino dishes did he eat during the visit. I am more concerned, as others are, about the things accomplished for this visit, despite the last-minute cancellation of the ASEAN Summit and six-party talks (well, this is another story, and quite interesting, I'm telling you).

Japan Times said that the visit affirmed the two countries' position in "condemning North Korea's nuclear test and vowing to quash global terrorist threats."

In a joint statement, the two leaders "expressed their grave concern" about the Korean Peninsula, blasted North Korea for its October nuclear test and urged Pyongyang to give up nuclear weapons.

They also "shared the view that the threat of terrorism remains a regional and global security concern and reaffirmed their determination to prevent, suppress and eliminate all forms of terrorism," according to the statement, signed at the presidential Malacanang Palace.

On other issues, Abe and Arroyo agreed to promote policy dialogue in the fields of security, maritime and consular affairs, and to enhance cooperation on efforts to prevent and eradicate human trafficking.

In terms of economic cooperation, Arroyo expressed appreciation for Japanese official development assistance to her country, and Abe said Japan is considering providing new yen loans.

Did I read that right? NEW YEN LOANS??? Well, while that sounds good at first, it would mean a more "baon sa utang" situation. And, if I may ask, how much do we owe the Central Bank again? I'm not good at counting you know, especially if it has to be 10 figures or so. Tsk, tsk.

Anyway, I hope Mr. Abe (and his wife who joined him in the visit and busied herself in visiting orphanages) are now back home safe. ;)

Jap soldier's confession

2006-11-28T16:29:00.000+09:00

Japan Times reports,

A former medic in the Imperial Japanese Navy says he carried out vivisection on about 30 prisoners, including women and children, in the Philippines during World War II.

It is the first time anyone in the wartime military has admitted that experiments were conducted on human beings in the Philippines, said Keiichi Tsuneishi, a professor of science history at Kanagawa University.

It's not that easy to come out in the open for serious and sensational matters such as this. His reason for telling the truth? His conscience could no longer take an act that he was forced to do at that time.

"The souls of those who died would not be soothed if the story remained buried," he said.

And it is not soothing either for the Filipinos of today to hear such horrible acts. This is something quite difficult to accept, no matter how true it is/was. I can't even quite imagine how the whole process of vivisection was done on alive people. Sorry, it makes me throw up.

Sometimes, some truths are better kept hidden. Truth hurts, and this particular confession hurts me deeply. If there is such thing as emotional vivisection, that exactly is what I feel right now.

To my Japanese friends out there, let me assure you that this news doesn't affect my views of Japanese society TODAY because today's generation is entirely different from before. Just let me vent on this though, coz I really feel sorry for the victims.

Given this testimony, what should we do then?

"We should not let this horrible thing happen again," Makino said. "I want to tell the truth about war to as many people as possible. If I'm given the opportunity, I'll continue to testify in atonement."

Yeah, that's right.

The joys of teaching

2006-11-25T21:19:00.000+09:00

What else could be better than hearing your students say these things ...

"I enjoyed your lesson."

"I had fun today."

"I've learned so many things today."

And nothing could even beat my happiness to hear them utter these little compliments without having to ask them the question, "How was your class?" (note: another person usually asks the question, not me).

Sometimes, I also receive heartwarming salutations from my students like,

"I've been looking forward to this lesson."

"I always look forward to your lessons."

Isn't that great? Hearing such lovely expressions from those who depend on you for their language learning makes me feel warm and comfy inside, despite the brrrr-y cold weather.

It's true. There is joy in teaching, and this is something that I will treasure as part of my (rather short) life in Japan. ;)

Note: cross-posted in my GANDA blog.

Sale...90% OFF

2006-10-15T23:03:00.000+09:00

Just imagine that! 90% OFF? Unbelievable, isn't it? But it's TRUE. It is just like giving it away (this makes me wonder why don't they just give it away?).

I'm just one lucky person to have stayed in this part of the world where SALE is abundant. And I am NOT talking about my usual bazaars, coz that's another story, thus another post. I am referring to the discounted prices of baby stuffs in the luxurious shopping mall where, expectedly, prices are sky high. This is the same place where my son and I love to hang out, and where items I could only afford to look at and admire, wishing that somehow someday I'd be able to buy at least a few of those pricey stuffs for my son.

Good heavens heard my wish, I guess. For there's an ongoing mallwide price down of up to 90%. Of course, I am especially interested in baby stuffs (what else?). With my happiness, I instantly bought a "few" stuffs.

Due to necessity, I once bought my son a pair of shoes for 700yen at 50% OFF, but the same sets of shoes are now sold at 100yen. Even the fancy little girl's hats are also 100yen, which are originally priced 1800yen. Baby clothes of all sorts of styles are also on sale at 100yen cheapest, others are priced 300yen or 500yen, with original prices ranged from 1500 to 2300yen. It's as if I am in a 100yen shop (I'll tell you more about this in another post).

My bugdet is tight, I have to admit that. But I just can't resist this irrestible temptation to buy, for I know that this comes only once in a blue moon.

Happy shopping indeed!

Visit to Shinjuku Gyoen

2006-10-11T11:41:00.000+09:00

Among others, Japan is known for its neat and wide parks across the nation. In Tokyo alone, you would find at least a small yet cozy park in almost every corner, where you can briefly take a rest from a long walk. And many, including myself, would (initially) wonder why this modern society takes a big step at keeping huge parks despite its nation's relatively small land area. I guess, one would have to personally experience the peace and calmness that these places give to their visitors, like us.

Last Monday, since it was a holiday (Health and Sports Day, Taikuu no Hi) and the weather was terrribly good, we booked ourselves to breathe through the greens and cool breeze in Shinjuku Gyoen National Garden, right at the heart of Tokyo. What more, a Jap friend of ours who works in the Garden, paid for our entrance fees. ;)

The place itself is wide and well-maintained, giving visitors the valued time to appreciate and commune with nature -- in the midst of the hustle-and bustle megacity of Tokyo. It is a classic example of a modern western landscape garden, and thus having the stature as one of the most important gardens of the Meiji era.

The large garden exhibits three distinct but blending styles of landscape:

English Landscape Garden: A wide lawn, dotted with zelvoka, tulip poplars and other large trees that create a sense of openness in this garden.

French Formal Garden: This beautifully symmetrical garden features central rose beds flanked on either side by rows of sycamore trees.

Japanese Traditional Garden: A stream winds its way through this circuit style garden. It also includes Kyu-Goryo-Tei (also known as the Taiwan Pavilion) and two teahouses known as the Shouten-tei and Rakuu-tei.

The Garden boasts of its luxurious sights throughout the year. It was all fresh green when we went there -- the awesome color of summer. At this time,

The trees turn a lustrous shade of green, and refreshingly cool breezes blow through the woods. The roses in the French Formal Garden and in front of the Greenhouse bloom in early summer, and the water lilies of the Middle Pond draw visitors with their white and pink flowers. In high summer, the songs of hte cicadas swell into a lively chorus, and dragonflies laze over the wide lawns.

Soon, the colorful autumn leaves will decorate the whole place. And yes, we'll visit this place again to witness the gold-yellow-orange-red colors of autumn, most especially the annual "Chrysanthemum Exhibition associated with the Imperial Household" slated on November 1-15.

Click here for more photos.

Enjoy nature at its best! ;)

Jap up for the Guinness with his Pi

2006-10-06T00:43:00.000+09:00

Now this is something incredibly wonderful, and probably leave your jaw hanging in awe!

Here's a man from Chiba Prefecture, who challenged himself to recite the value Pi up to the 100,000 digits for 16 hours.

Pi, as we all know, is the ratio of the circumference of a circle to its diameter. So far, I've come to know the value of Pi only as 3.1416, but this 60-year-old man has done it up to six digits!

Japan Times reports,

He recited the value of pi -- an indefinite number that has no repeating pattern -- stopping at exactly 100,000 digits at 1:28 a.m. Wednesday, the witnesses said.

I could only say, WOW! That's really something to be proud of, and to be rightfully officially listed in the Guinness Book of World Records.

On the sidenote, how I wish I had the mathematical ability to do this. Sad to say, my side of the brain for that is somehow dysfunctional. Good thing I have a calculator. ha! ha! ha! ;)

Japan has changed guards

2006-09-27T13:59:00.000+09:00

So Mr. Junichiro Koizumi has stepped down as Japan's premier after leading the nation for more than five years, passing on the critical leadership to his protege, Mr. Shinzo Abe.

Mr. Abe, who took premiership last Tuesday after winning easily in the Parliamentary vote, has a lot of plans for the nation. In his first speech as a PM last Tuesday, he made a lasting impression to the nation that he is firm with his plans to reform the nation for the better end. "From today, I will start building a new Japan. The Cabinet I appointed today is one that will create a beautiful Japan." By beautiful, he meant in terms of culture, nature and history.

In the forefront of his reforms, the new PM vowed to repair the wounded democratic relations with China and South Korea, bolster the long-standing ties with the US, revamp the pacifist constitution as well as actively pursue educational reforms. Reports have these:

Abe's roadmap takes Japan down a path toward a more robust military and more assertive foreign policy, delineating a fresh direction for a leader who, at 52, is Japan's youngest premier and its first born after World War II.

While Abe envisions a confident Japan that can step from the shadow of decades of postwar guilt, he conceded the country's foreign and security policy will still rest firmly on Tokyo's half-century alliance with the United States.

The fact that he is young, many think that he does not have the ample experience to lead the country. Well, we have yet to see that for ourselves. He has many years to prove that.

His hawkishness is also believed as an stumbling block to forging good relations, both within and out of Japan. I guess, let us not judge him by the cover; who knows, some good things might happen, which we have this attitude of his to thank for.

To Mr. Abe, I wish you good journey in your leadership! We all ride with you as you take the driver's seat towards a beautiful Japan.

The little prince's first public appearance

2006-09-17T14:36:00.000+09:00

More than one week in the hospital after birth, Japan's little prince is now safe in their Imperial Estate in Akasaka. Held by his proud mom, Princess Kiko, and together with his equally proud father, Prince Akishino, Prince Hisahito made his first public appearance in front of the Aiiku Hospital where he was born. He was sleeping when they got out of the hospital, and probably doesn't have any idea of what's going on around him.

Many will agree that the royal couple is beaming with pride and exuding heavenly smiles in their faces with the coming of their newborn son into the Imperial family. Although the pictures don't really show the prince's face, I'm pretty sure we'll have more of him in the coming days as the whole nation will continue to closely watch the little boy as he grows and eventually take on the Chrysanthemum throne, and be a living symbol of peace and unity.

Photo source: China View
Read more in Japan Times

Prince Hisahito: Japan's little prince

2006-09-13T23:56:00.000+09:00

Japan's little prince, who is hoped to avert the succession crisis faced by the world's longest monarchy, has finally arrived.

The newest Imperial member is named Prince Hisahito. Born on September 6th, he is the third child of the Emperor's second son, Prince Akishino and Princess Kiko. He has two older sisters, Princesses Mako and Kako. Seven days after he was born, his name was pronounced in a traditional ceremony.

As Japan Times reports,

The name Hisahito is made up of the Chinese character for "hisa," meaning "far and away" and "at ease," and "hito," or "virtuous person." "Hito" has been the customary way to end boys' names in the Imperial family since the Heian Period (794-1185).

In the naming ceremony, a court official put the new prince's name and his symbol, the umbrella pine, on "washi" paper in a paulownia box and it was placed next to the baby's pillow. The symbol will be used to mark the baby's belongings.

The name was chosen in the hope that the little prince will live a long and comfortable life. The umbrella pine, an indigenous evergreen, was made his symbol so he will grow straight and tall, the agency said. Umbrella pines grow on the grounds of the Imperial Palace and on the grounds of the Akasaka Estate, where Prince Akishino's family lives.

The Imperial newborn is the first male heir to the Chrysanthemum throne in 41 years, and third in line to the throne, after Crown Prince Naruhito and his own father. His birth, as many believed, has somehow put a period to the succession drama that beset the Imperial family. The current law allows only males to ascend to the throne. However, the other side of Japan says that the crisis has not been solved yet, it has only been put off for the next generation to bother.

Whatever the future may bring, all our hopes are high for the little prince, and that may he truly live a long and healthy life to continue the royal tradition of, among others, promoting a harmonious and peaceful family togetherness.

Banzai to our little prince!

Tanabata "Star" Festival

2006-07-14T00:11:00.000+09:00

In Japan, Tanabata is celebrated every July 7th (or August 7th in some areas) where it is believed that at this time of the year, loverstars Altair and Vega get to meet each other.

During this Star Festival, children usually write their wishes on a white piece of paper (with a star pasted on it) and hang them in a bamboo branch (with some decorations too), and place the whole bunch near the window or door of the house, so that when the Stars see them, they will grant the children's wishes.

I did this for Luke. I made several wishes for him, mostly about his health and overall development, with high hopes that the Stars would pass by our house and read the wishes. ;) Coincidentally, Luke got feverish the day after Tanabata. But this doesn't mean that Tanabata is not true. I don't discourage anyone from believing or making the wishes. As I said, it was just coincidental.

More facts about Tanabata can be found at: Japan-Guide and Kids Web Japan
Photo taken from Kids Web Japan, ©Yoko Shibata

Jitensha lost?

2006-06-29T00:05:00.000+09:00

Last Friday, our jitensha (bicycle) just disappeared from where it was parked that morning. Hubby went home feeling a little exhausted, not only because he had to walk for 1.5 kilometers, but also worried about the lost bicycle.

So, what do we do now? Come Sunday, we went back to the parking area, and tried to search for it again, but no luck at all. We asked our friends what to do, and they said that reporting it to the police is the best.

We have almost given up, and even thinking of our difficulty without it. The bicycle has been our only means of transport from the eki to the house (and vice versa) and helps a lot in buying groceries.

To our surprise, the bicycle got back to the parking area a few days later. Definitely, someone "borrowed" it and returned it afterwards. Oh, that someone should have paid a rent! A huge rent!

I wonder if others have experienced this kind. Is it a norm nowadays? Anyway, what matters is that our bicycle is not gone forever. ;)

Train trouble

2006-06-07T23:58:00.000+09:00

'Twas Saturday afternoon, just after my arubaito in the language school. I was on my way to meet up with a student-friend. I was sitting comfortably, almost asleep, when the train stopped in one of the stations. To my surprise, the train didn't just stop -- it stayed there for more than 30 minutes! Oh my! What happened? Why ain't the train moving? Obviously, there was some kind of trouble, as the train staff were on their megaphones announcing something I could hardly understand. As I tried to listen, and as far as my understading of Nihonggo can go, I figured that there was trouble between two stations which affected three train lines. For what kind of trouble, I wonder. Maybe, two trains collided with each other. Maybe, there was someone who tried to kill her/himself. Maybe a thunderstorm? Nah, it wasn't raining.

I was about to panic since I was already getting late for my appointment. Since I have no celfone (oh, poor me!), I had to stand up from where I was comfily sitting (and thus, giving up my seat) and look for a payphone to make a call. To make the story short, I arrived in the meeting place one hour late. Because not only once did the train stop, but thrice!

This "lovely" experience of mine brings back all the train-related glitches I had when I was still teaching in Tsukuba. Once, the train I was on stopped in the middle of the long bridge for about 30 minutes. And since my Nihonggo was really awfully zero at that time, I didn't know what was really happening. I was able to know the reason only when my students explained it to me, when I arrived in the class one hour late. They said the train stopped due to thunderstorm. Oh, boy!

I have had other train troubles, some are minor ones, others are my own fault. But if I were to tell them all here, it will probably take you a day to finish reading a single post. I could not exactly tell that I won't face another train trouble in the near future. Seems like this kind of thing is always near me, if not with me. I try to commute early just so to avoid any inconveniences. But sometimes, no matter how hard or careful I am, Murphy's law strikes without a warning.

Good buys

2006-06-05T11:38:00.000+09:00

Most of my friends know that I am exceptionally addicted to the color brown, thus, my romantic fascination for wood.

In Japan, many wood-based home thingies abound, and expensive too (probably because woods are imported). Take for example our wooden stool, which is just as simple as something you can sit on -- no artistic whatsoever -- costs 1200yen each. And we bought a pair. It would seem lonely if we buy only one. ;)

Did I just say they are expensive? Well, everyhing here is pricey, so it isn't a surprise anymore, is it? Luckily, in my bazaar hunting and in some SALE days, I chanced upon some good things that I really like, and I can proudly say it is indeed a one good buy.

Take this thing I call a mega mini-drawer. The three layers are so small that I could only probably store pins and other flat things (like my precious lapad, hahaha!). But it doesn't bother me at all of its very limited usability because I am dead happy for its aesthetic beauty and elegance as a desktop ornament. For now, though, I shall be content with it as a flat base for my indoor sword plant (which, by the way, doesn't seem to grow; hmmm, is this a living thing?)

And here's the most recent addition to my sari-saring collection. It is not made of wood, but it is one of my best buys ever. Yeah, it is a plate but I have no intention of using it as one. It is a bit heavy and too beautiful to put your food on it. Its coarse finish just proves that it is made out by some good hands devoting some innate skills to draw a beautiful piece on a very solid material. And I believe this rare piece of artwork deserves its rightful place as a center ornament in my receiving room displayed strategically as a matching accessory to my wood-motiffed and/or wood-based interior design.

I'll show more next time. In the meantime, lure your eyes and envy me. Hahaha! ;)

Bazaar mania

2006-05-26T19:36:00.000+09:00

These are my Pinoy friends whom I rightly call my bazaar-friends. These are friends back in Los Baños who are now somehow transplanted here in Japan. They have stayed here more than we do, so they know more of the ins and outs here -- especially about upcoming bazaars. Take a look at the large paper bags in the picture, you bet those are nice things bought at the recent bazaar they went to with only about 100yen spent on all those.

While bazaars are not patronized by all Japanese, they are most looked forward to by those who want to buy things at a cheaper price. Sometimes even at a jackpot price, as my friend has coined it, for buying a very-slightly-used kiddie bicycle for her son for zero yen. That's really a WOW.

Bazaars are done mostly for charity purposes, especially those organized by the church. Any proceeds go directly to their chosen/intended recipients. In fact, the annual bazaar in our church is scheduled in the first week of June. Hmm, I need to get ready with my coins. ;) Yeah, you only need coins, for prices are really low. And lots of freebies too!

So far, I have bought so many sari-sari (assorted) things from the bazaars that I happen to go to. Most of my son's toys were bought in the bazaar. Just recently, we bought him a big size of Pooh bear (again???) who now becomes his best buddy, a Sesame Street mini-toy kingdom, and a lego-like shapeblocks (om, what's its name?) I also enjoy buying kitchen wares which are unique only to Japan, and which I intend to display ONLY at my cabinet back home (weird? ah, please don't mind me).

I'd say my money and time are worth the things that I bought from these bazaars. Especially when you are trying to live frugally in an expensive and stlyish city such as Tokyo, bazaars are a good source of stuffs you need for your home -- stuffs which are either slightly used or unused at all. Quality is still valued even in this kind of market, and I assure you, your yen could go a long, long way.

Till next bazaar day!

Picnic and fun at Odaiba

2006-05-04T14:48:00.000+09:00

Everybody has been busy going here and there. It is a season to enjoy one's [very limited] freetime with family and friends in this weeklong holiday. As for us, we spent our whole day yesterday at Odaiba, together with some Pinoy friends. As we had expected, our "pasyal" was so much fun -- the kids got along well playing all the time, while we, the mothers, spent most of the time talking about our life and all other things while taking care of our "bulilits." The daddies also had their own enjoyment.

To start off, we met at Nishi-nippori station of the JR Yamanote line. 'Twas just funny that our friend who kindly reminded us to be there ON TIME was the one who arrived the latest. Surprisingly, we were the first comers when in fact we were the farthest from the station (about 45minutes from the house). We looked a lot like a very big family all set for a grand picnic each carrying a basket (or backpack) full of foods. So we started our journey, rode the train and got off at Shimbashi, where we transferred to the Yurikamome monorail going to Odaiba-kaihin-kouen (Odaiba Seaside Park) station. Here's my first glitch of the day: I was getting a ticket at the ticket machine when it suddenly gone crazy and out of service after I dropped a 100yen coin on it. Amidst the crowd, we asked the help of the staff and told us to stay put and wait for the machine to spit out my coin. I waited till the machine went back online but no coin appeared. To make the story short, I didn't get my coin back because, according to the staff, "I left the line without waiting for the coin to appear." Well, somebody might have been lucky enough that day to unexpectedly receive 100yen. "It is just 100yen," said the staff. JUST 100yen??? Hey, my 100yen can go a long, long way, you know, especially so in a bazaar. ;)

It was my 3rd time to visit Odaiba so I somehow knew what to expect from the place. Despite this, though, I still enjoyed every hour of our stay there as if seeing the place for the first time. Who would not enjoy such a riot company -- noisy and in an upbeat mood, laughing our hearts out, moon-walking while stopping in every corner to have our [crazy] pictures taken, feeding our already full tummies, filling our eyes with the awesome sights, and feeling the cold breeze amidst the sunny day.

Now, let's talk about the place. Odaiba is one of Tokyo's best spots with a unique ambience to offer its visitors. It is said to be a reclaimed area in Tokyo Bay which was first developed towards the end of the Edo period (1603 - 1867) as a strategic geographical protection against possible enemy attacks from the sea. The development was greatly affected, though, during the "bubble economy" period. Not wanting to waste whatever had been started, the place was redeveloped and "purpose" realigned to now serve not only pure business ventures but what has come to be widely known as a shopping and entertainment district. I would personally say that this place is kinda 'mini-USA" having its own version of the San Francisco Bridge (called the Rainbow Bridge) and the Statue of Liberty. There is also a "Little Hongkong" inside the Decks Tokyo Beach (a shopping mall) as well as the Venus Fort, a for-ladies shopping center with an ambience of the Rennaisance-period Venice, Italy. Hey, you don't need to travel around the world to see these things, because it's all here! Other "must-see" and "must-experience" in Odaiba are found at Japan-guide.com.

Our route? We got off at Odaiba-kaihin-kouen station, and walked our way through the all-woodplanks road to Decks Tokyo Beach until we reached the front of the beach overlooking the Rainbow Bridge. We found a nice shaded place where we shared our "sari-saring baon". We had adobo, tortang talong, kare-kare and tamago sushi, and crema de fruta for our dessert. Afterwards, the kids went playing at the beach while the "bulilits" soundly took their afternoon naps. There was never-ending chatting while nibbling with some "chichiriya". Then, we breezed through the nice parks on our way to the Palette Town where the kids excitedly rode the biggest Ferris Wheel in the world. For 900yen, you'll get to see most of Tokyo from above through a 16-minute ride in the slow-moving Daikanransha. Before and after getting there, we stopped at the MegaWeb (car showroom) where latest -- and old ones too! -- Toyota car models are displayed. Test driving is allowed as long as you have a valid driver's license, which none of us have, so we just took pictures of our pick. There was even a 10-minute showcase of a car of the future which, to me, looked like either a movable bedroom or a one-of-a-kind vacuum cleaner or probably an elegant sofabed with tires. No, I don't -- and won't -- dream of a car like that.

It was getting late and some of our friends left early. With only three families left, we walked down the park while witnessing the awesome sunset. At 6:35pm, we took the sea bus (aka Tokyo Water Cruise and SuijoBus) and cruised the calm waters to Hinode Pier. Yes, I was -- and still am -- afraid to ride a boat. But for experience's sake, I tried it this time. I'd say it was an experience with all the nice sights and lights I saw from the window. Well, I did not have the chance to go up in the open deck because I was carrying Luke. Besides, it was so cold up there.

After that 20-minute sea trip, we took the train from JR Hamamatsucho station to get home. We arrived home a little past 9pm, exhausted, hungry, sleepy but happy and satisfied.

Lure your eyes with more pictures at my Flickr account.
More facts about Odaiba at: Tokyo Essentials, Sugihara.com, JNTO, Odaiba Decks

Greenery Day and Golden Week

2006-04-29T22:05:00.000+09:00

Today, April 29th, is Japan's Greenery Day (Midori-no-hi), a holiday that marks the start of the most-awaited Golden Week. April 29th used to be the birthday of Emperor Shouwa, and following his death in 1989, this day has become a day of nature appreciation since the late emperor had a strong fascination for nature and plants. In patronage to this holiday and for self-enjoyment, we went strolling at the splendid 14-ha Ueno Zoo in downtown Tokyo. The weather wasn't cooperative, though, so we arrived home earlier than expected. Nevertheless, we enjoyed what we had seen there so far. Check out my other blog for some stories.

So, the Golden Week has finally arrived. Why golden? According to Web Japan, it was "first used by movie companies to get people to take advantage of the "golden" opportunity to go see a film. The term gradually began being used by other people to refer to this string of holidays."

Yup, string of holidays. What are these holidays, by the way? Here's a detailed description from Japan-Guide.Com:

April 29
Greenery Day (Midori no hi):
April 29 used to be the birthday of Emperor Showa, who died in the year 1989. After his death, the day was changed into a national holiday for environment and nature, since the emperor loved plants and nature. From 2007, this national holiday will be renamed Showa Day, while Greenery Day will be moved to May 4.

May 3
Constitution Day (Kenpo kinenbi):
On this day in 1947, the new post war constitution was put into effect.

May 4
"Between Day" (Kokumin no kyujitsu):
According to Japanese law, a day which falls between two national holidays is also declared a national holiday, unless the "between day" is a Sunday, in which case it will be just a regular Sunday. From 2007, Greenery Day, currently celebrated on April 29, will be moved to May 4.

May 5
Children's Day (Kodomo no hi):
The Boy's Festival (Tango no Sekku) is celebrated on this day. Families pray for the health and future success of their sons by hanging up carp streamers and displaying samurai dolls, both symbolizing strength, power and success in life. The Girl's Festival, by the way, is celebrated on March 3.

Golden Week is thus one of the busiest holiday in Japan. Especially so in this year, it will be a 10-day g-r-a-n-d vacation to many. Most people travel on this season, either around Japan or overseas (check out Japan-Guide.com's 2000 survey). As for us, we have no grand plans but we want to see some nice places around.

More about Golden Week at: Web Japan and Go Japan

Have a wonderful week everyone! ;)

Spring means cherry blossoms

2006-04-15T08:40:00.000+09:00

There is one important thing about Spring that I haven't mentioned in my earlier blog. Well, that's intentional. ;)

In Japan, the start of the SPRING season is marked by the globally-famous sakura and hanami. Sakura is the Japanese cherry blossom characterised by its awesomely pink flowers, a vibrant canopy, and a grandeus sight one could but only marvel in wonder. Hanami (hana=flower), on the other hand, is cherry blossom viewing which is a traditional Japanese way of welcoming the season. Ever wonder how hanami is done? Japan-guide.com has a handful of facts and info about this, and so with the different varieties of cherry trees found throughout Japan.

Many people, Japs and gaijins alike, thus watch out for the forecast on when to best do hanami. Since cherry blossoms normally last for about a week, you don't want to miss your chance, do you? As for me, sad to say (and I mean I AM REALLY SAD! waaahhhhh!!!), I missed this year's hanami. We still have one more spring to go, anyway.

And oh, one more thing. In case you are interested to know the best places for doing hanami in Tokyo, here is a list of the major ones. So you know where to go when you plan for your next year's hanami.

PS: The picture was taken two Springs ago, at the Imperial Palace. My smile is as pink as the cherry blossoms, isn't it? ;)

Spring luck

2006-04-14T22:39:00.000+09:00

SPRING has finally come in this part of the world. In Japan, and probably in other temperate countries, this season is most looked forward to and many (if not all) eagerly wait for it. I, for one, love spring so much because this means no more thick fur coats, no more layers of clothings and finally get rid of the "burning" coldness of winter. But this also means no more snow. *sigh*

To many (including myself), Spring connotes a new beginning to something wonderful. Spring gives birth to new life, new hope, new journey, new career, new relationships and all other new things in life. In Japan, this time is the start of its fiscal year. This is also a busy period for job seekers, as many jobs are offered by several companies at this time. Choices are many, but competition is also tough. As for me, I haven't found my best luck yet. But I am not losing hope. Never felt that, in fact. Coz I see opportunities knocking at my door one after the other. It is just a matter of careful scheduling of my rather very (as in v-e-r-y) limited working hours. I have this general impression of Tokyo that it never runs out of jobs to offer any one who is willing to earn for his daily bread. It is just a matter of choice, time and preference. Unlike in my home country, sad to say, that even for degree holders like me have very limited work choices.

Worthy of mentioning is the help extended by the government-run Hello Work and the Tokyo Employment Service Center for Foreigners. Their help makes my job search a little easier with their extensive database system. You tell them your preferences and they will look for jobs suited to your preferences, and even endorse you to that company you are interested in. I've heard some not-so-good things about this office but in my experience, their help far outweighs whatever those things are.

My Hope is that this Spring will Spring new Hope for me.

Learning Nihonggo

2006-04-08T21:37:00.000+09:00

Luke and I just got out of the doctor's clinic the other day when a young lady approached me, and asked for some directions. Here's how our conversation went:

Lady: Sumimasen. Ario wa doko ni arimasu ka?
Me: (quite surprised) Ario?
Lady: Hai.
Me: (still thinking of the right words to say) Ah, masugu itte hidari desu (motioning my hand toward the direction she needed to take)
Lady: Ah, hidari desu ni. Arigatou gozaimashita.
Me: Do ittashimashite.

Wow! And another Wow! I could not believe it. My Japanese has improved! Little did the lady know that I am still in Grade 1 when it comes to Japanese, or probably nursery eh. But, with that, I am proud of myself.

Normally, when someone asked me about something, I usually answer "Wakaranai". Or before I could really answer, the person asking me could already tell from my facial expression that "I don't understand what he said" or "I don't know." But now, I understand the question and can respond too! Isn't this great? ;)

In order to survive in Japan, you have to learn its language. This is the first and foremost rule. In my case, I did not do this because there's no need, at least when I first came here. My former job didn't require me to understand Nihonggo, and I turn to my husband when the situation requires it. But since I came back here last year, I felt the compelling need to learn, but still resisted. Only a few months ago when I finally got the interest and motivation to learn Nihonggo. So, I am making efforts to this end.

There are many ways to learn Japanese. You can do all or any of the following:

enrol in a language school
attend classes in the Universities (there are classes for spouses of students)
attend classes held by voluntary civic organizations organized by your Ward/City
buy books or study materials and study on your own
have many Jap friends to practice your Jap language with

The first one is the most expensive way, but there are many foreigners willing to spend, just as many Japanese willing to spend in order to learn English. The second one is popular among wives or husbands of foreign students, especially in big daigaku (universities). The third option is open to anybody who wants to learn, and it is very cheap, almost free. I once planned to join one of these in my Ward, but it remains as a plan until now. (click here to know the various classes offered in my Ward). If you do/have the last two options, I'd say you're lucky.

And I'd say I am lucky too! Because I have an ample collection of study materials which I use -- not only books, but also audio and video materials (all these c/o hubby). I prove these to be very helpful. But nothing beats the real life. For a person as "young" as I am, memorizing those sentences is kinda tiring. So, now, as part of my rigorous language training, I have started to engage in a language exchange with a friend of mine who lives nearby. She'll teach my Japanese and I'll teach her English. Isn't this really great?

So, if you're a newbie here, my advice is to jumpstart with your Jap language lessons, no matter how you want it to be. You'll never regret it. For me, how I wish I have started it long ago. But I can never turn back the time, so I am making up for it now.

Good luck!

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English version of the dialogue:
Lady: Excuse me. Could you please tell me where Ario is?
Me: Ario?
Lady: Yes, that's right.
Me: Ah, just go straight ahead then turn left.
Lady: Ah, left. Thank you very much.
Me: You're welcome.

Train ride

2006-04-03T21:09:00.000+09:00

When we went out the other Sunday, I was glad not to forget to bring our digicam so I was able to take pics of Luke while riding on the train. When it was Luke's first time to take the train (that was last year), he got a bit scared, maybe bcoz of unfamiliar sights and sound. After that, train ride is just chicken feed.

My first train ride in Tokyo (alone) was two years ago. Geez, I was so nervous that I made sure to memorize the names of the stations to pass by before my destination. Oh, have I told you I am very poor at directions? This is the very reason why I am so afraid to get lost. Scary, eh! Luckily, I got to my destination hassle-free.

Here in Japan, the most common and convenient mode of transportation is taking the train. This country boasts of its extensive railway system ranging from the trains, platforms, schedules, stations and staff. Taking the train is the fastest way to get to your destination. That is, if you're able to get to the platform just before the door closes. Trains arrive and leave on time. And, if you happen to miss the first train, chances are, you'll not be able to catch the next train when you norikai (change/transfer) to another sen (train line). And, if you are getting all the bad luck in that day, you'll be late for your appointment or work. It happened to me many times before. And I guess I will have more of it in the future, as long as I am here.

This is the very reason why people, no matter how jampacked the train is, still try to squeeze themselves in the train. Especially during rush hour, you will see almost all people running after the train, and trying to get in even if the door is already half closed. Inside, you could hardly breathe. And if you do, you'll surely take in various scents (you're lucky if it is a good one, huh).

Here are some tips when riding the train (including some unwritten rules):

Make sure you know where you're going to. Do your homework first before starting your journey. This will save you time and precious yen.
Train fares are calculated based on distance. There are many possible ways to get to your destination, and it's but wise to choose the cheapest and fastest route. Go back to tip #1.
When you're not sure of the exact fare to your destination, just get the minimum fare, and adjust later. Minimum fare for subway lines is 160yen and 130yen for JR lines
Inside the train, always sit properly and keep your things only within your 'space'. If you don't do this, you'll have some eye brows raised on you.
More raised eye brows when you talk loudly as if talking to everybody. Especially so when you are speaking a foreign language. General impression is that Filipinos are loud talkers, so if you see a group talking loudly and laughing, more often they're Filipinos. Groups of junior hi schoolers are also noisy, especially on mid- and long-distance trains.
Talking on the phone while inside the train is also a no-no. BUT many are doing it, including me (that was when I still have a keitai (cellphone)). If you really need to use keitai, cover your mouth and lower your voice as much as possible, probably just whispering.
There are priority seats for the elderly, handicapped, pregnant women and those with children. If you're not one of these, avoid these seats. More often, however, I see some commuters occupying these seats, even if they see an old lady standing near them. Once, on my way home, a lady in her 40s offered me her seat when she saw me standing with difficulty as I carry Luke in one hand and a tote bag on the other. Thing is, she wasn't sitting in the priority seat nor beside me but a few feet away.
If possible, don't eat inside the train, especially inside tokyo metro trains. If you can't bear your hunger, just take in a few bites of something not smelly nor 'noisy'. Eating is allowed though in suburb trains.
Sleeping is fine as long as you do it with finesse, that is, no drooling, no loud snorr, and no going beyond your 'space'.

Ei, what about during rush hour? Well, that will be another post. Till then.

100 things about me

2006-03-27T13:05:00.000+09:00

Guess it's but right and proper to let my readers know who I am, at least in my own words. Got this idea of 100 things from a friend, and I am encouraged to do it too. So, scroll down to the end, and get to know me more.

I'll start with my name. I have several names, but I prefer you call me NING.
Stay-at-home mom.
Have a 1-year-old son.
I am 100% Filipino.
Born and raised in the Philippines.
But I am in Japan right now.
Will stay here for a couple of years more.
Third among the four brood.
In my early 30s.
Mestiza.
Brown eyes.
Tall and slim.
But I have grown a little since I gave birth to my son.
No plans of going to a gym or even doing a home exercise.
I really don't care about my figure.
But I want to get rid a few cms so I can still wear my fave suits.
Did I say I am a writer and editor by profession?
I graduated with a bachelor's degree in communication at the University of the Philippines.
I am 3 units short of my master's degree.
In Japan, I do English language teaching.
I first got a full time job in a language school, but I'm a freelancer now.
I try to find a part time work, but things are not as easy as before.
I hate cold weather.
But I want to experience snow.
I love to eat.
I eat 3 full meals and 3 snacks in between in a day.
I'm always hungry.
In fact, I am getting hungry as I am composing this.
I hate raisins.
Whatever you do, you'll never get me to have at least a taste of those black thingy.
I don't eat strawberries before.
But now, I do.
Strawberries here in Japan are superb!
I am a big fan of chocolates.
Any kind or brand will do.
But I am crazy over macadamia nut or almond-filled chocos!
I also love macadamia nut-flavored Häagen-Dazs ice cream!
Even it costs so much here, I still buy at least once a week (but not during winter).
Oh, I am a coffee-holic now.
It started just a month ago.
Blame the good coffee taste here in Japan.
I am a late-riser.
My deep sleep in usually in the morning.
I love blogging.
I bloghop too.
Most of the time, in fact.
I've learned about HTML thru blogging.
I desire to buy a state-of-the-art digicam but don't have enough dough right now.
So I have to be content with our small digicam.
Hmm, I never realised it would be this hard to describe myself.
It's taking me a while to think.
What else should I say?
Oh, I love to sing.
I dream of singing for a large audience someday.
Sort of a live concert.
I had a few stints before though.
But those were not as big as I dreamed of.
Hmm... when will this dream come true?
I remember when I was small, I used to sing in front of the mirror.
With my hairbrush as my microphone.
And with all emotions poured into it.
How about dancing?
Well, I did a YMCA dance when I was in Grade 6. ;)
I am NOT a sportsperson.
I don't even know how to ride a bicycle.
But I can drive a car.
I love peach roses.
Don't ever give me red ones, I won't appreciate it.
I hate rush hour.
I think everyone hates it.
I wanted to have another baby.
But I am afraid of going through the 9 months ordeal again.
It is very traumatic for me.
Not knowing what's gonna happen.
I get tired of cleaning and sterilising feeding bottles.
But I need to, otherwise, I have nothing to use in feeding my toddler.
I also get tired of doing the laundry.
But I have no choice but to wash them.
Ows, have I already mentioned that I love anything with Pooh bear designs.
I have a collection eh.
Almost all of my kid's things are Pooh-inspired.
Even diapers!!!
My fascination of Pooh bear started when I got pregnant with my son.
That's as far as I can recall.
Lately, I keep on forgetting things.
Just this afternoon, I forgot to bring the digicam on our way to the park.
I love eating at Mister Donut (in Japan).
Their Angel Cream is superb.
I miss my garden back in the Philippines. *sigh*
Ten more to go and I'm done!
I intend to buy a G-shock watch for myself.
My hubby gave me one 3 years ago.
But it is nowhere to be found now.
The last six items are the most important.
I believe in God Almighty.
I love God.
I lean on Him for help and guidance.
He is my Saviour.
My dependable Friend.
For without HIM, I am NOTHING.

Note: First published at my blogHi account.

Dyan-dya-ran-dyan-dyan!

2006-03-27T12:52:00.000+09:00

Hey, guys!

So, this is my new blog. It is still a personal blog as it has something to do with my personal life. However, it is quite different from my earlier blogs on two counts. First, I intend to post stories here related to my life as a gaijin (foreigner) here in Japan, particularly Tokyo. You see, I have never stayed nor lived in a place other than in my home country. I have been to other countries, but those are only for short visits. In Japan, however, I have been here since 2004 and will stay for a couple of years more. Life here is very much different from where I come from, and adjustment is so great in order to adapt to the local setting. Besides, staying here temporarily (or even living permanently) is very much different from plainly visiting the place. Since this is a relatively new place for me, it poses some difficulties to adjust alongside with some discoveries, adventures and new interests. In fact, the first few days, weeks, months have been the most difficult stage because of culture shock. I became a no-read-no-write person in an instant. But as days, weeks, months have passed, I have slowly tried (and still trying) to learn the language, and so with many other things that I have to know and learn.

Hey, I am not saying that life here is all difficulties and hardships. In fact, there are many good things around here. This leads me to my second goal of having this blog. Many things have been said about this country, but I guess, there is no greater and deeper way of presenting the goodness, richness and abounding possibilities of this small-in-area-but-big-in-heart land in East Asia than to do it with a personal touch. And I mean, telling you the innate classic-but-modern beauty of Japan as I see it with my own eyes.

I don't promise to give you new posts each day, though. As a full time mom and wife, my hands are full in taking care of my active toddler as well as doing house chores, all by myself. Blogging is a time to myself, and I want to devote a little time to it whenever and however I can squeeze it into my busy schedule. Blogging is also my way of communicating not only to my friends, but to the whole world in general. So, whenever you have something to say about me or my posts, please feel free to let me know. I value your comments so much.

Okay, till then. Ja mata ne.